Is cheating a sign that the cheater wants out of the relationship?
Do most men who cheat on their girlfriends usually end up leaving them. I ask because I know my b/f cheated on me. He doesn't know I know. I still love him and hope he doesn't do it again but fear that is a sign that he wants out of the relationship. He may still be seeing her.
Some people see cheating as something that mean people would do just because they aren't staying loyal. Other people see it as something that a person does when he/she can't decide on who he/she really loves. Since your boyfriend cheated on you, that means he doesn't care for you enough to stop and think and ask himself, "Is this right? Am I going to hurt her feelings?" You shouldn't give him a second chance because he made the decision by himself: he could have fully decided NOT to cheat, but since he did, it is his fault. Move on: I know it seems so easy to give him a second chance, but you will find another guy, and one that deserves you much more than he does.
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February 10th, 2007 at 7:02 pm
He wants his cake and eat it to. You have to know that you deserve more - or he will continue to be with you and someone else. If you let him get away with it then he will continue, why not? You are letting him. But, if he truly loved you then he wouldn't want to hurt you and wouldn't risk losing you.
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February 10th, 2007 at 7:03 pm
Some people see cheating as something that mean people would do just because they aren't staying loyal. Other people see it as something that a person does when he/she can't decide on who he/she really loves. Since your boyfriend cheated on you, that means he doesn't care for you enough to stop and think and ask himself, "Is this right? Am I going to hurt her feelings?" You shouldn't give him a second chance because he made the decision by himself: he could have fully decided NOT to cheat, but since he did, it is his fault. Move on: I know it seems so easy to give him a second chance, but you will find another guy, and one that deserves you much more than he does.
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