What are some signs that he's cheating on you!?
I need to know what he's up to now. I suspect maybe there's another girl in his life, but I need to know the signs.
Coming home late. His form of dress improves. He loses weight. He clicks off messages on the computer when you come into the room. His mobile phone bill has increased, and if it is pre-paid then he goes through his credit very quickly. He is not as interested in sex with you anymore. He accuses you of being paranoid and starts arguments, so he can storm out of the house and blame you. He doesnt come home at all. Poor excuses like the car didnt start, or the battery was flat, flat tyre, motor blew up. He is spending more money than usual. The list is long, but usually the biggest sign you will ever get is your gut feeling.
I feel so sorry you are going through this, it is a horrible time for anyone to go through. You would be feeling sick right now, but the sooner you find out what or if he is doing the sooner you can deal. At the moment you only have suspicions, and that is sometimes worse than knowing. At least when you have the truth, you can work out a plan of action. Without the truth you will always be guessing and making yourself miserable in the process.
I wish you all the very best.
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:04 pm
strange behaviour
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:04 pm
Vagina breath usually gives it away.
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:04 pm
if you have to ask…
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:04 pm
staying out late, acting weird around you
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:04 pm
follow your intuition, its ussually right.
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:04 pm
Used rubbers in the trash when you're on the pill.
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:05 pm
hes going out with his :"friends"
staying out late
doensnt call you as much
you see less and less of him
he seems suspicious
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:05 pm
Lipstick on the penis, loss of hair (because she's been eating it), etc.
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:05 pm
here's a thought….ask him! If he gets all angry and upset and defensive…..watch out, he may be fooling around.
on the other hand if he seems surprised, and even flattered that you think someone else thinks he's attractive….he's probably not fooling around. HA!
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:05 pm
Secretiveness, more sex, or less sex, loss of showing affection - particularly in public, irritability at you for no apparent reason.
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:05 pm
well…u should notice
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:05 pm
well not answering calls in front of you for starters if he starts to get mad and jumpy if you ask him if he is cheating.
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:06 pm
just trust your feeling you know your man if you feel he's cheating then 9 out of 10 he is.
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thats a fact.
December 19th, 2006 at 1:06 pm
1.) He hides his cellphone.
2.) His time with you is cut shorter and shorter.
3.) He kisses differently
4.) He says new phrases or new nicknames that you havent heard before
5.) He doesnt answer his phone if you call.
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:06 pm
If he's…
Italian, black, or speaks spanish there's a real good chance he's cheating.
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:06 pm
acts weird if you get around his phone…. Gets jumpy over stupid stuff! Never calls and talks, always wants to get off! Always with friends and never with you! There are alot of things that guys who are cheating will do!
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:06 pm
That feeling in your gut. You are asking this question, so it must be there.
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:06 pm
I think if he comes home to you with lipstick on him, he is cheating or if he smells like he was having sex he was also cheating!
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:07 pm
You suspecting he has another girl in his life is the 1st sign..that he is cheating….if he acts diferently about things …If he seems withdrawn from you…..If he act funny around you or secretive around you…..When they cheat they change completely and blame you for the change…Check his phone or the phone bill for diferent numbers…you dont recognize and call them all back to verify But in all true honestly you suspecting is the 1st sign …This is called woman intuition and 99.9 percent of the time they are right
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:07 pm
Lack of interest in you or anything to do with you. Liking new music, new cologne, or a new way to have sex. Change of habits. Stuff he used to do but no longer does.
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:07 pm
There is a lot that can tell you if he is cheating, if he dosen't call, isn't around, wants to be seen with you in public or public places, hides things all the time. You just need to talk and get the truth no matter what. This is the only way that you will know.
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:07 pm
listen if your guy is cheating on you..you will feel it in your bones..the way he acts..he picks fight..he sneaks of when he gets a call..he dont call you like he used to…he tells you like leave me alone..I need a break..listen we are not married..or when he has messsages on his cell phone from her..men start acting strange..like they dont want to be bother with you..thats some of the signs…good luck
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:07 pm
Your sex life changes, or is non-existent.
He walks always from you when his cell-phone rings (or home phone).
He gets very defensive if you ask him about possibly cheating.
All of a sudden, he has less time for you.
He doesn't call you as much.
He makes plans with you and cancels often.
He doesn't include you in plans as often as he used to.
He can only see you during "certain times of the week".
Well, those are only a few, but they are some good ones to start. I've been there, I never want to go back either. I just wish I'd of listened to my gut feeling more from the start.
Good luck to you!
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:07 pm
If he lies about where hes going or if he doesnt call you one night when he's been out with the guys…and if he does call its not till late. His personality will change to and if he talk s about a friend of his alot lately that you havent met.
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:07 pm
getting mad 4 no reason, blaming you 4 everything even if he did it, cursing at you, rarely any eye contact, silence around you
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:09 pm
he wont give u much calls.
he will be either cold towards u or over excited…cold because he cant stand u anymore n excited to cover secret.
when u talk he will not look at u much n sometimes he will get impatient.
he will be very forgetful. n will disobey important dates.
when u r around, he will take his cellphone to the other room for talking.
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:10 pm
if he comes home late and says he was playing basketball with his friends but he smells shower fresh he was cheating
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:11 pm
Well for one he always makes excuse that he can't be around you because something is happening, HE will be with you and act strangely, also he will make more calls or get more calls and whenyou ask him who it was all he will say it's just a guy I know, or it's just a friend. ALSo if you seem him talking with a girl and ask him about it he will say I was giving directions or she is what's his name's cousin. and can never look at you straight inthe eye. If you need to chat more or ask me anything just IM me anytime
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:11 pm
You should know!!!!!!!!!! Lesson .1 if he starts acting really strange like doing are saying things he would never do are say. Lesson.2 If he starts spending less and less time with you. .3 to see with your own eyes you need proof you need to see if its true are just go with your first mind
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:12 pm
Coming home late. His form of dress improves. He loses weight. He clicks off messages on the computer when you come into the room. His mobile phone bill has increased, and if it is pre-paid then he goes through his credit very quickly. He is not as interested in sex with you anymore. He accuses you of being paranoid and starts arguments, so he can storm out of the house and blame you. He doesnt come home at all. Poor excuses like the car didnt start, or the battery was flat, flat tyre, motor blew up. He is spending more money than usual. The list is long, but usually the biggest sign you will ever get is your gut feeling.
I feel so sorry you are going through this, it is a horrible time for anyone to go through. You would be feeling sick right now, but the sooner you find out what or if he is doing the sooner you can deal. At the moment you only have suspicions, and that is sometimes worse than knowing. At least when you have the truth, you can work out a plan of action. Without the truth you will always be guessing and making yourself miserable in the process.
I wish you all the very best.
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:13 pm
Well if he is not with you as often as before or seems to be "too busy" to spend time with you then I would find out why. If his behavior is different to you as in he seems withdrawn I'd be curious. Any changes in behavior just sit him down and ask him what is going on.
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:15 pm
Dear, if you are already suspect another girl, then here we go…
Your gut feeling is one of the signs..
Any other signs are: lesser phone calls, being secretive, being attentive to other girl, talking about one particular girl frequently, being penny pinching towards you, caught in lies, being sarcastic and inconsiderate of your feelings, seems to be distant and cold.. etc
Trust me, I've been there
Good luck..
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December 19th, 2006 at 1:18 pm
Depends on how clever his is. Some are really good at hiding an affair!! Go on your woman's intuition…if you think he's up to something, then he probably is, you probably saw some signs but you've been ignoring them because you don't want to believe he could possibly do that to you!
My ex. changed is cologne after 9 years. I found that weird, so I started to look through his pockets, and found a crumpled up phone message from work with a girl's number on it. I called it. Her mother answered. I pretended to be my husband's employer. She told me he had just been there last night visiting her daughter. I changed the locks on our door.
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